The headline
in today’s ‘Times’ concerns the aggressive behaviour of some charities toward
donors and those perceived as potential donors, and so I thought I might share
some of my own views.
I have
always given to charities, but I am selective on the matter of to whom and what
I will give. I have a favourite to which I give regularly – a care home for
elderly people run by an order of nuns. The fact that I have no religious faith
does not matter here – I think they do a good job with love and care. I get a
very courteous greetings card at Christmas and almost always put a cheque in
the post to them, for which I am graciously thanked and told that prayers are
offered for me. Bless them. And if I sell one of the oil paintings I do from
time to time I don’t take money, but ask the person who is buying the painting
to contribute instead to this good cause. That way I don’t get into complicated
tax wrangling. And if a young person is helping to pack bags at the supermarket
checkout I like to ask all about what they are collecting for, and as well as
dropping a pound into the bucket I congratulate them and wish them well. I just
admire them, and they are always courteous and never pushy.
I will give
to medical charities, but again to those less ‘popular’ with the sympathetic
(and sentimental) public, and in particular to such as Alzheimer’s and mental
health issues. The Salvation Army does good work, but as a non-believer I know
that they are convinced that I am destined for Hell, being the sort of sect
they are. I do forgive them for that though.
But I do
find being approached by ‘chuggers’ in the street, a common enough occurrence,
annoying. And it’s not a one off donation they want, I am told, but a commitment
to more regular giving. I have no problem dealing with such: a charming young
man or woman approaches me with an opening gambit along the lines of ‘may I
have a minute of your time?’ to which I reply, politely, ‘no you may not’ and
walk by. I don’t make an excuse. Why should I?
The
charities I do favour are those that help the seriously marginalised and
underprivileged – such as the elderly as I have mentioned, and the addicted and
the homeless. The ‘Cinderella’ groups. I am less enamoured of most of the
children’s charities – which may shock some of you – and animal charities. For
if children are being neglected or ill treated it is simply a national disgrace
and it is our government that should be addressing that, and imposing taxes to
fund it. And so far as animals are concerned, the main problems seems to be
that there are just too many of them. People who mistreat animals should be up
in front of the courts. And if people can’t afford vetinary care for their
pets, then they shouldn’t have pets. No-one has a ‘right’ to own an animal. I
don’t have a pet because I know too well that to care for one properly demands
huge commitment and not a little sacrifice. Instead I feed my garden birds who
seem very appreciative, not only of the food I put out but also of the fact
that there will not be a feline on the prowl in my back yard. Those are seen
off with a gentle squirt from a hose pipe. Actually I like cats for their
beauty, but not for their destruction or defaecating on my grass. So off they
go.
As for mail
from charities that comes through my door – in to the recycling it all goes
(other than the Christmas card from the nuns). I just think it a dreadful waste
of trees,
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